Things to do to get yo know yourself better . . .

 hii.. welcome ! ⊂(´• ω •`⊂)

This is a tiktok Ive written down my diary, becouse i wanted to remember to do this in my free time but I thought its a nice way for pepole to get to know themselves better and I wanted to share it here (^_^) I unfortunetly dont remember the account who posted this before but ill edit it in if i ever stumble upon it again !

   

 
 

  

1. Do a milion online tests, not typology but for example . . .

•  my political orientation
• whats my political party
• whats my type of feminism
• for fun you can do what type of character from ur favorite show are you
• etc

 

 2. Fuck around and find out 

• what you like, what you like to do
• how are you in day to day life
• try veganism, vegetarianism, find out what fits you
• try being a sports person, a writer, extravert, introvert..
• cold showers, warm showers, travel, stay home, be bored, busy, etc
• date everyone
• smoke, or dont, drink, or dont
• spend money or dont
• take care of yourself or dont 
• try different styles, experiment !!!

 

3. Read a lot of books, watch movies, analise your 'literally me' characters and DONT confuse them with 'who I wanna be' characters;

• have idols, pepole you look up to
• have pepole that you like or enjoy being around, whats it that you like about them?
• be a little more like pepole or chracters you look up to everyday

 

4. Do ikigai (finding life passion)

 

 

 

 

5. Keep a diary or a book of reflection, have somewhere to write your thoughts

• let other pepole feedback you
• be mature
• openly take critique
• dont take everything personally 
• ask yourself uncomfy questions and SEEK DISCOMFORT !

 

6. Travel, move around a lot

• move your body!!!
• move friend circles
• have multiple friend circles
• dont have friends
• try befriending everyone kinda
• try different sports even if you dont like them at first

 

7. Write down yur dream self !

• the way you want to interact with pepole 
• way you wanna be
• the confidence you want to have
• and develop the steps to get there !

 

8. Write down the list that your dream partner should have

•  must haves
• nice to haves
• dont likes
• red flags

 

9. Regulary engage in challenges that test your limits and abilities

• how many drawings can i make a day?
• wek of reading or how many books can i read in a week
• watch 100 movies in a year
• workout daily for two weeks
• do 60 days of hard studying
• try to learn as much language as you can in a day

 

10. Take leadership positions and see what they make of you !

 

11. Develop something like uniform, style, signature things (perfume, colour, smell, favorite flower and etc, make it yours !!!!

 

12. Reflect on your current self

• How you see yourself
• how you think others see you
• things that shaped who you are
• everything around you that influences you
• who youre not and who you dont want to become
• who you were in the past and who you want to be

 

 

 

 

 Honestly I tried to do some of these already wether conciously or unconciously but i still look forward to get to know myself more ! Some of these suprised me but im definitely more open to try different lifes now. Im prepared this wont take a week or month to develop but its still nice to get ahead of pepole who will never even try to look for answers. 

 Maybe ill even try to unravel some of these topics in future posts too.. hmmm ....... 

 

Hope you enjoyed and take care ! (っ╹ᆺ╹)っ 💗